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Taking Small Steps Can Build your Self-Worth

2/9/2019

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Like most things, building your self-worth is best done in small, incremental steps. If you have low self-esteem, trying to feel better about yourself might seem impossible. Trying to do everything at once will be exhausting, will scatter your energy, and will most likely lead to less progress than you’d like. You risk feeling worse than when you started.

Sometimes even the thought of building your self-worth can feel like an insuperable task. Where should you start? It can help if you approach it like a project and break it down into small achievable steps. Take it one step at a time, and before you know it, you’ll be feeling better about yourself.

Make the positive decision not to try to change everything at once. Trying to change everything at once will only set you up for failure, and that’s not what we want. But by making this a conscious decision, you’re setting out on a positive path of doing things calmly and building yourself a sure foundation, foundation built on self-care and kindness.

And you’re off to a great start already! The fact that you’re reading this means you’re self-aware and want to do the best version of yourself.

Positive self-worth builds on self-care and kindness. Here are five small, but significant things you can do to be kind to yourself, today and throughout the coming weeks.

1. Build in little regular treats to make yourself feel good.  A bubble bath, a monthly massage or manicure perhaps, or a walk in the park a few times a week.
 2. Acknowledge your weaknesses and think of a positive action you can take to help yourself. Apps for time or money management perhaps, a personal coach, or taking a class. Remember to tackle one at a time.
 3. Journaling can be helpful in identifying, challenging and turning around negative self-perceptions. Try writing down every positive thing you can think of about yourself. Think of things that are just about you, not things where you compare yourself to someone else. Are you a good writer? Are you kind? Do you have a good sense of humor? Do people love your pancakes? I have a free resource that can help you Journal Your Way To self-Worth.
 4. Start a daily gratitude journal where you list all the things for which you’re grateful. You might be grateful for clean air, water, enough food to eat and a house to live in for starters. Living in a place of gratitude keeps your brain looking for things to be grateful for, so you’ll begin seeing things all around you. I personally use the 365 Gratitude: Daily Prompts, Grateful Journal by UofHappy, LLC
 5. End each day by thinking of at least one good thing that happened that day, and on waking think of a positive affirmation to take you through the day. Making this a daily habit can boost your self-worth, emotional wellness, and mental health. 

If you need more support in boosting your self-worth, my self-study course Starting Loving Yourself From The Inside Out can help you get there.

Until next time, 
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Alec Wood link
8/27/2019 09:06:14 am

As long as you are feeling worthy of yourself, it will become a challenge for others to make you miserable. Your self-worth influences your self-esteem a lot. Self-worth is an outcropping of how you feel about yourself at a given juncture. Nourishing a high degree of self-worth will enhance your self-esteem. An individual has a high-level of self-worth means he has a favorable estimate of himself. Practicing self-forgiveness will increase your self-wroth.

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